I felt that he was playing with me, Last night he texted me saying hes busy and gonna go to bed early for these few days. This isnt even all of the details but a summary..what do you think ? Thats when I started to get into astrology. WHEW. It sounds like you do based on the fact that nothing ever gets talked about or cleared. We made a date to meet that Tuesday night at 10pm (my preferred time). Thank you for responding, Anna. He said everything I needed to hear. We immediately connected and seem inseparable. So I dont know what answers I want at this moment but whatever your conclusion is Ill appreciate it. The Pisces Man Offers Illusive Answers If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when you've asked him what he's been up to; he is either feeling he doesn't have to answer to you or he knows he's being dishonest. So told him Im ok with it I understand certain things are important so I dont mind waiting to see him. This is often how a Pisces man will test you. While he is an expert at convincing people of anything; he is flawed. Sounds like hes just after sex if he made a big deal out of no oral. He helps me with my two kids and helps me with chores around the house and will even tell me to take a break so he can cook and clean and stuff. Im overthinking things and Im feeling like he doesnt want to be bothered anymore even though he told me how he felt. Ask him how hes feeling about the two of you. After the break, he seemed a little distant as if he didnt want to talk much anymore even though we had a really fun time over text. Represented by a pair of fish, Pisces is the final sign in the Zodiac. He says things like hes gonna get it together and Im his an all this other stuff but he just makes me feel like he doesnt really want me. He thinks a women only knows what he wants when shes 25. I hope this helps! Also what was with him not seeing me for 2 months that was weird too. It may be eye-opening. Do you see how this works? i think my confidence intimated him because i have a very sarcastic way of talking and i think it triggered him idk. Im just now figuring out his mood swings. Give him some time and be patient with him. These days anything is possible. I feel lost is it over between us? A lot of it is miscommunication and frustration. Im sorry you learned the hard way sweetheart. A Pisces man is motivated by emotions. But he might not be doing this intentionally at all! I find out from Facebook it was his ex he was helping out. 27 Expert-Approved Texts To Send When A Ghoster Returns. Hell freak out and hardly ever want to be around to be responsible. When he acts flaky let him know how terrible it makes you feel, this may make him think twice about the way he is treating you. We texted and talked more that day. Then Hed either pretend like nothing happened or he would apologise and make promises. After a while and some weeks passed, I started to get this weird nervous feeling in me every time I walked by or was in the same room as Kohen. When hes done, he will likely become quiet. But if you have tried those options already and his distant behavior has not changed, he may just need to be reeled in. However; there is always a way to catch someone in a lie and hes no different and that is body language! He was after me for almost a year before I gave him a second chance. I wish you nothing but the very best you deserve! If you worry about your safety, you should perhaps get a restraining order. I know i need to let him go but i cant . Unfortunately it may feel as if youre working twice as hard and he isnt. So I texted him saying that I figured everything out and that he was lying to me and I did get quite rude, but Im human. You have tried everything, but it seems like the more you try the faster he tries to pull away. Even if he loves you, at some point his emotions become overwhelmed and he will want some time by himself. How difficult is that I decided to breakup with him and now i keep wondering what i did do wrong. We started off just messaging each other through in game private chat and really got to know each other. They might not be the same mistakes but they are mistakes nonetheless. Be bold and brave! Hes so good at telling lies or bending the truth that hes become very comfortable with himself. I need some help. I also hate their MIA act even over the weekend. Remember that Pisces men can be incredibly manipulative. im a leo woman and this guy has been trying to meet up with me for over half a year now. Naturally, hes likely to deny it if you call him out so dont be surprised if he does. It hurt my feelings as an Aries woman but we talked and decided to move on from it. While hes going through a difficult time, he will seem sort of detached but he did say its not because of you. Then we went to his home we made out and I gave him a hand job after that he was completely emotionally detached like I felt it very powerfully. But this time, he said something I didnt like so I pulled him up on it. If someone ghosted on you, it's because you seemed disinterested, or were making it seem as though you wouldn't have space for that person in your life. The good thing about a Pisces man is that when he commits, he really commits. Even if I require validation, I know that I can change that, which is not a good enough reason to say we are not a good fit. Let him know that you wont stand for this nonsense. He had his head in other places and breaking up is probably the best thing for you to do with him. He tells me hes not taken me for granted but his responses to my supportive behavior are very vague if he even responds at all. He sounds confused and maybe a little immature. Pisces men can be truly wonderful partners, but unfortunately, there is a side to them that is so manipulative. How To Make a Ghoster Regret 1. Calmness, being rational, and gentle is the only way to get along with a Pisces to the extent that they wont pull back. Later I texted him and asked when his birthday was. I really dont know what to do. 4. Im sorry youve got through this. We met for lunch and a long walk, and later in the afternoon we went to my place to start cooking. Be honest with him and tell him you will not do this back and forth with him any longer and either he wants to be with you for the long haul or he doesnt but there is no in-between. Kohen is quiet but funny and witty, and also a little shy. We talked kissed cuddled and he performed oral sex on me. But he still acted like he didnt care. My ex is a Pisces. Your email address will not be published. Check out my books Pisces Man Secrets for more help! Its been confusing cause I feel like our relationship didnt really start until end of 2020. He is 2 faced sort of, he has a gemini moonhe acts super nice to me but says otherwise with ppl. This will be casual, just to see how you are doing; however, then he will start checking in on you more frequently. I bought one for $25, he was not happy, He wanted me to increase the amount. ? He wont admit hes my boyfriend, but he gives me these hints he is and says hes exclusive. He said, too bad you dont live in Maryland, because he was in the mood, and I wasnt there. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sadly this lasted only for 1 year. Im in Texas hes in Florida So we went a whole year of only virtually talking and we finally met a few months ago and became official. Why do that if he isnt into you? So we spoke about so much and by the sound of things it seems as though he seems to see me in his future but this man has never taken me out on a date weve just always hung out at one of his houses lol. Then, they will tell you an explanation for their actions. So in the week I texted him about it so he said he hasnt slept with someone yet. He thinks its young love. Roll with it Brittany! Right now I feel like Im done with him he send me a text this morning and Im not even feeling bad for not responding Im also not planning ons talking to him again. Im just trying to figure out how to move this thing along at a normal pace instead of a snails pace but maybe it ends now since I wont see him again for at least another month such a bummer I was really into him!! I did not except the FaceTime because it seemed too soon. Being berated for ANYTHING should never happen. I have NEVER, been on such a world wind, with a Pisces. I broke up with him recently but I am confused in my head if I did the right thing. Giving him space will be your best option, followed by reaching out to him to see if he is Okay. I thought, how could someone like him just want to quit? We shared the same sense of humor, same passions, and interests, and we really connected. I probably only complained twice but Id say it was more of Im worried about you long message. Just an advice for all my girls out there: work on the relationship with your Pisces like you are growing a plant. We share the same values and interests but sometimes disagree with one anothers practices) We met on a Sunday night. You just want answers to understand him better and to either keep going or to let him go. Hi, my name is Nevada (not my real name, but lets go with it). Then, read it again. Alright well, Pisces men do like an equal playing field and yes, he will want you to also text him or initiate if hes doing it primarily. However, Pisces are usually dating 8,000 people at once, so if you ghost. Ive apologized for our argument which he didnt on his part but admitted to being wrong about not telling mewho he was hanging out with. Typical leo woman, I like consistency. If he really does love you and its not infatuation then he will stick around and still continue to treat you as though youre everything. It's alright to let him have some free time and space. He said I understand if you are upset, I said Im not upset, Im sad and that was it. 4 months into dating he said he loved me but I couldnt say it back. Please help because I like him. I have apologised quite a few times when I know it is my fault. and this is why he could not access his bank. When youre confronting him about something, do so in a calm and polite manner. One day I told him. He read it out loud and it said, dear kohen, I like you a lot, do you like me back. It felt like something stabbed me to hear those words. I feel crazy saying hes watching me but it feels that way. He also hates his mother working at the bakery they own. And the more you try to get him to stick to the plan, the faster he tries to run away. Sorry but thats a dead giveaway about his intentions with you. I do wish you all the very best in life sweetheart! So the Friday we arranged that I will sleep over by him. But he will always text me. Its hard to know which is which without a bit of time and research. A flaky man is a man that isnt invested. ? He had his hand on the door partly opened and looked down while slightly smiling and said no. And I said, what abt? And he said, I think Im staying in marching band. I was so happy and I told him how glad I was to hear that. With my Scorp, intuition I KNOW what love and making love would be with this man! I deflected and didnt give a solid answer. i wish i didnt go back because i want him to text me again and i wasnt even into him from the start. You two need to get everything out on the table so that you are on the same page and know for sure whether this is something you can work with or if you two need to let go. But until the two of you have the conversation about taking things to the next step, he feels like he is allowed to keep his options open. There are so many things you can do to turn your relationship around. He told me hell just leave me alone. Find out by asking him what his deal is. Sorry to mention that he never texted me fist hes always busy ok I can understand Bcz hes doing two jobs but yah if I dont text then he will send me a text hi thats all sorry for my bad English I hope u understand. While all this is going on he is also going through a something that can affect his life. This is still pretty uncool because it seems like he isnt considering your time which is a little disrespectful. He is ten years younger than me and this is always bothering me. A Pisces man isnt your obvious, go-to player type. Hi there, so here is my situation. Required fields are marked *. I explained I didnt want to disturb him. They have that mentality of doing what they want when they want and not answering to anyone. Im the only girl he constantly brought with his family. Most Pisces men are looking for their one and only, so they dont do a whole lot of playing. I did and we had sex, watched a movie, cuddled and he asked if he could see me. We woke up next morning, with him seeming aloof and no sign of tenderness. He broke my heart in pieces and so I spent a lot of time grieving as I was super young. But what bothered me is he seemed very distant the next day and my insecurities started like what did I do wrong were did I fail ect. Hed totally shut you out. I am a Pisces and my guy is a Pisces (2days apart) what should probably be the greatest love story told has actually been an emotional nightmare for 2 years that i cant seem to wake up from. Look at the overall picture and start piecing together those red flags. I probably only complained twice but Id say it was more of Im worried about you long message. He also begs me to change my number for 2 years now. I would just start doing your own thing and not acting like this is something. The Pisces Man Plays Mind Games With You, 2. Long story short the first week of may he tells me hes been going to help a friend move and thats going through things. Sex is just part of the equation honey. If not then hes being selfish and taking time to himself after he promised it to you. I did purchase your PDF file of the book. You have to ask him the hard questions honey. I was bit confrontational that night. And then today he texted I gave a short simple response a few hours later and he gave me an emoji to which I didnt respond. And I also went through some personal stuff with my ex husband so I told him Im going to take a step back I have things I need to work on and then Ill get back to him. Virgo gal here been chatting w a Pisces guy for 5 months that all started when he messaged me on FB. It sounds as though youre figured out the truth behind the Pisces man. i blocked him for two weeks because he was being such an ass but then missed him so i came back. So 2 months back he called me trying to see me but unfortunately he got busy and had to cancel and he was apologetic about it. Ill tell you its not like that at all! As a Capricorn, you should be able to provide stability and a steady ground from with to work on. Life is too short for that. Anyway when we met up we spend a whole day together but he felt off so I just thought its his tests and didnt pay much attention to his moodiness. Plus, if you are forthright with him, you'll know you did your best and were honest about everything. Besides, do you want to be with a man who is constantly playing so many games? But social media isn't the only sign that a ghoster might be planning their grand return. Im wondering if maybe this little fling ran its course I sure would love to keep him in my life but the dipping out is just not something I can deal with. Anyway I stayed calm and 9 hrs later I texted again and I said alternatively we can just use condoms until I can get birth control and still no response. I dont understand why his acting weird and ignoring me. You have a right to know where he thinks things stand so you can be on the same page with whether or not its something good or its just a friendship. Im torn between pride and feelings. It sounds like you need more work on yourself and some healing so that no matter who you are with, you are able to process emotions better. Find Out What's He's Hiding - Gently 3. The more you do this, the more gets aired out and maybe moved past so you both can be healthy. It will break your heart cause they are always lying. Ouch yes pain can make you say and do horrible things. I have caught him in so many lies and w expert at reversing it on me to make it seem like its my fault when I know its not. Serve It Right Back (If He's Treating You Badly) Final Thoughts I wasnt looking for anything at the time as this game that I played was just to occupy myself when I had nothing else to do. It really can go either way depending on the person he decides to have a relationship with really. It all just depends on the man you are dealing with. Well lator nov 2018 he asked me to be just seeing him and be on a relationship. Not typically, but they can be when they are not ready to commit. Something like Hope you are well. Im so confused he says all these things but acts like hes scared? i havent heard back today at all. Maybe with time that will change but right now youve got to accept just the friendship hes leaving open and try to focus on you. (Some facts:He lives in South America and I am in North America. Also he deals with depression from time to time. I kind of stayed with my group of friends. PISCES. Try not to criticize him or say things in a way that might sound like it. Me and Evan were talking about pianos when suddenly kohen told his brother (loud enough for me to hear, but acted like it was just between him and his brother) that he should start playing guitar again. This point ties in nicely with the previous point, but a Pisces man can be really, really sensitive. He loves having her at home. Im afraid the only way to know for sure why hes acting strange is to ask him about it. And if he says he wants to commit, make sure you both set boundaries for your relationship as early as possible. Did he swim away because I didnt cave in? Your gut will probably be able to tell you whether they're just making excuses, or they had a genuine reason for ghosting you which you can forgive and move on from. Pisces men are the very much introverted yet charming men of the . Incredible. Show Up 4. Weve been together for roughly 2 years and met in the most unusual place. Pisces men are run by their emotions sometimes. Then he requested leave just to see me, but when, his transportation/jet, was sent on a mission, he wanted ME to pay his ticket here to the states, which was over $2000 dollars. 5. Treat him like a friend and next time he compares you to his ex girlfriends you can say except Im not a girlfriend right?. Also check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets for more information. Then I begin to feel bad, we can go weeks without speaking even though I reach out all of the time to resolve issues. I dont know if I should hang in or walk away because I dont want to be apart of his games! I have secretly had a bit of a crush on him for a while. The thing is this we both went into this with no strings attached and it was supposed to be just for fun, unfortunately I have caught feelings. We also slept together but this didnt work out very well, which I did not consider a big issue as it was the first time (nervousness) and we also had a lot of wine. Hes dual natured x 2. This is where his actions become more important than his words. I texted the next day and asked if he was okay. He was more relaxed in the moment. But if you've gone out with someone a couple of times and are well into the process of getting to know them, don't just go poof. And he had decided I am the one to spend his life with. He is a very social person and he would never spend time alone with me. I also asked him were do we stand after the intentions question and he said that we are working on a us. Hi im a Capricorn Ive known my pieces since may or June of 2015 . This, however, means that your Pisces man has no trouble dating around so that he can find his perfect match. We dont talk as often as we did in the beginning but we do talk. I decided not to sleep with him to see his real intentions with me. what do I do? As things started to get alittle more intense; I finally couldnt take my dishonesty anymore and wanted to break things off. Talk to him! Would he actually make it into a reality? Why break it all up by telling him he needs to give it a title. I would say you should do a check in with him every few months. They are a little more grounded than the male Pisces because they are more in tune with Mother Earth. Oh and Im an aquarius lady. If you truly love your Pisces man and want to fix things so that you can have the most amazing life with him then now is your chance to make a big change, < Click here to find out more information about how you can make your relationship the most amazing thing you have ever experienced, You have a lot more power than you give yourself credit for, It is about time that you start taking control of the situation and living the life you have always dreamed of. Pretending everything's forgiven when it's not, just so you can ghost him right back, will most likely backfire. If hes still playing with you then he may not yet be ready to give that up while hes playing with others. This will aid you in figuring out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you. I just want to know if I should pursue this feeling of mine or let it go. Not to let him get away with stuff but being able to talk to him in a soft way that wont make him feel as though hes an awful person. If your reaction to being ghosted is more aggressive, punch a pillow. Ive only been with my Pisces 3 months. I wish you all the best! Instead of trusting your fears, you should trust your own intuition. If youve met a Pisces man who says all the right things but doesnt put the action behind it; youve got yourself a player who doesnt care about your feelings. 5. Email support@annakovach.com Then I can advise you with your unique Pisces man situation sweetheart. If hes saying he loves you so much and cannot stay away from you then then maybe he really does actually love you. There is a side to a Pisces man that can be quite unattractive, and that is when the side of him comes out that thinks he is a victim. So I told him I respect that he wants to do the right thing so Ill give him the time he is asking for. I personally think he does this because he has definitely been hurt before and if he shows you that he cares about you, then it is game over for him. One of the signs, when a Pisces man is done with you, is that he will go silent, wont return your calls or texts, and basically, you wont be able to get a hold of him. The inner journey, the spiritual quest, and the emotional realm are what the Pisces man's general focus. And as many people may think that he might be using me to get a visa here. Give him a chance but if he pulls back again, end it for good. He does that hot and cold business. 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